Is there a chance that having thought all my life that I don’t make friends easily, that I–in fact–do makes friends as easily as the next person, I just don’t realize they’re my friends?
When I think to myself, “who would be the least bothered by my call right now?” maybe I should be thinking “who would like the most to support me in this moment of distress right now?”
Perhaps, in the end, we are far more loved than we realize.
Find yourself in a moment of need and then do nothing about it. It’s amazing how many folks show up in some way to be supportive. And then I realized: oh, these are my friends I didn’t realize I had. Sounds like you did too.
We love you, and we love to love you. Is that a disco song? Anyway…yes Virginia, you have friends!